Here are some books I most recommend related to trauma healing and growth:
Permission to Feel, by Marc Brackett
The Voice of the Heart, by Chip Dodd
Gentle and Lowly, by Dane Ortlund
Is it Abuse? by Darby Strickland
Suffering and the Heart of God, by Diane Langberg
The Relational Soul, by Richard Plass and James Cofield
The Complete Guide to Crisis and Trauma Counseling, by H. Norman Wright
The Heart of Domestic Abuse, by Chris Moles
The Self-Centered Spouse, by Brad Hambrick
Beth M. Broom 